Comments on: Surprise! Your Wife Has Mail (from Him) http://something-about-harry.com/surprise-your-wife-has-mail-from-him/ From Army Intelligence to Corporate Accountant to IRS Whistleblower to WordPress Guy Thu, 03 Jun 2010 04:20:25 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: jean http://something-about-harry.com/surprise-your-wife-has-mail-from-him/comment-page-1/#comment-5319 jean Fri, 11 Dec 2009 09:19:02 +0000 http://something-about-harry.com/surprise-your-wife-has-mail-from-him/#comment-5319 I found your blog on google and read a few of your other posts. I just added you to my Google News Reader. Keep up the awesome work Look forward to reading more from you in the future. I found your blog on google and read a few of your other posts. I just added you to my Google News Reader. Keep up the awesome work Look forward to reading more from you in the future.

]]> By: Brett 'H' Bumeter http://something-about-harry.com/surprise-your-wife-has-mail-from-him/comment-page-1/#comment-5270 Brett 'H' Bumeter Tue, 24 Nov 2009 23:01:19 +0000 http://something-about-harry.com/surprise-your-wife-has-mail-from-him/#comment-5270 Hey, Your my wife! :) Thanks for understanding Becky. I think we've come a long way this last week, and broken some new ground in our relationship, tightened some things up too that might help us continue on far longer and hopefully in a happier state than we might of had we neglected or ignored things. Hey, Your my wife! :)

Thanks for understanding Becky. I think we’ve come a long way this last week, and broken some new ground in our relationship, tightened some things up too that might help us continue on far longer and hopefully in a happier state than we might of had we neglected or ignored things.

]]> By: Becky http://something-about-harry.com/surprise-your-wife-has-mail-from-him/comment-page-1/#comment-5269 Becky Tue, 24 Nov 2009 21:53:23 +0000 http://something-about-harry.com/surprise-your-wife-has-mail-from-him/#comment-5269 So, I'm the wife. Yes I have read the articles Brett has posted on his blog. I know the articles serve as some form of therapy for him. I understand the reason and need behind writing them but I also do not think I am the person he has made me out to be. It seems after sixteen years of marriage, my husband has stumbled across a jealous bone that he and I were not aware existed. I have always been a flirt. I will give him that. I believe that is part of the reason he was attracted to me when we first met. He has never discouraged me from being a flirt. Honestly I flirt with girls just as much as guys. (Probably adds fuel to the typical guy fantasy you all know about.) I crave the attention. It is kind of an ego boost. He has always understood this about me in the past and never had an issue with the attention before. So now, all of a sudden I meet someone at a bar, and aggressively flirt with the guy, with the encouragement and approval of Brett. And for the record, my new friend was not the only one who was flirting with me the night of our anniversary. He was just the only one willing to do it in front of Brett. I am not, have not, nor plan on sleeping with “Hobie” as Brett calls him. I am friends with him on facebook and we do chat and talk about all sorts of things. We even flirt a bit. I believe he and I both serve the same purpose. (a bit of an ego boost on both side, and someone to talk to about just about anything) Sometimes it is easier to off load your problems on a stranger than a close friend. So, what started out as a night of flirting has turned into a new friendship. Brett does not need to worry about me running off with the guy though. So, I’m the wife. Yes I have read the articles Brett has posted on his blog. I know the articles serve as some form of therapy for him. I understand the reason and need behind writing them but I also do not think I am the person he has made me out to be. It seems after sixteen years of marriage, my husband has stumbled across a jealous bone that he and I were not aware existed. I have always been a flirt. I will give him that. I believe that is part of the reason he was attracted to me when we first met. He has never discouraged me from being a flirt. Honestly I flirt with girls just as much as guys. (Probably adds fuel to the typical guy fantasy you all know about.) I crave the attention. It is kind of an ego boost. He has always understood this about me in the past and never had an issue with the attention before. So now, all of a sudden I meet someone at a bar, and aggressively flirt with the guy, with the encouragement and approval of Brett. And for the record, my new friend was not the only one who was flirting with me the night of our anniversary. He was just the only one willing to do it in front of Brett. I am not, have not, nor plan on sleeping with “Hobie” as Brett calls him. I am friends with him on facebook and we do chat and talk about all sorts of things. We even flirt a bit. I believe he and I both serve the same purpose. (a bit of an ego boost on both side, and someone to talk to about just about anything) Sometimes it is easier to off load your problems on a stranger than a close friend. So, what started out as a night of flirting has turned into a new friendship. Brett does not need to worry about me running off with the guy though.

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