http://something-about-harry.com/am-i-allergic-to-my-wifes-male-friends-text-messages-during-sex/ From Army Intelligence to Corporate Accountant to IRS Whistleblower to WordPress Guy Thu, 03 Jun 2010 04:20:25 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://something-about-harry.com/am-i-allergic-to-my-wifes-male-friends-text-messages-during-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-5419 Brett 'H' Bumeter Sun, 24 Jan 2010 05:06:06 +0000 http://something-about-harry.com/am-i-allergic-to-my-wifes-male-friends-text-messages-during-sex/#comment-5419 Thanks for your reply, its a few weeks after the original article now and things have improved significantly since this original article. Wasn't easy back then, but I do believe that it is relatively easy for casual acquaintances created or restored through sites like Facebook to grow and expand quickly before people often realize just how quickly they have developed or even how far. This particular situation moved even faster because the meeting occurred in real life first and was reinforced online, but paying attention (even though I missed a few things in the first few days which led to the 'surprise') definitely helped. I think if I had been caught up in a corporate job like I used to have several years ago, I might have missed things entirely and things might have gotten much more out of control if they had progressed for a few months or something before I had the opportunity to say, "hey this hurts!" or even "What is going on here?" :) Thanks for your reply, its a few weeks after the original article now and things have improved significantly since this original article. Wasn’t easy back then, but I do believe that it is relatively easy for casual acquaintances created or restored through sites like Facebook to grow and expand quickly before people often realize just how quickly they have developed or even how far. This particular situation moved even faster because the meeting occurred in real life first and was reinforced online, but paying attention (even though I missed a few things in the first few days which led to the ‘surprise’) definitely helped. I think if I had been caught up in a corporate job like I used to have several years ago, I might have missed things entirely and things might have gotten much more out of control if they had progressed for a few months or something before I had the opportunity to say, “hey this hurts!” or even “What is going on here?”

]]> http://something-about-harry.com/am-i-allergic-to-my-wifes-male-friends-text-messages-during-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-5415 Ivan Fri, 22 Jan 2010 09:10:33 +0000 http://something-about-harry.com/am-i-allergic-to-my-wifes-male-friends-text-messages-during-sex/#comment-5415 If she knows how you feel and respects you, she should stop this relationship. She met him on your honeymoon for god's sake, that hurts. Its not a life long firend that you are intruding on. If there are commmunicaiton problems between you tow, she should be discussing them too with you and not jus t striking up a NEW relationship. This is marriage, you both made a committement , and that take s work- not just the easy way out. Don't listen to those whoe tell you to stay out of her business- 7 out of 10 marriages fial nowadays- I htink because its just too easy to keep entertained elsewhere. Its also odd she struck up the relation on your honelymon, maybe some commitment issues there? If she is getting so attached, and its effecting you, she should demonstrate some sensitivity to that. Perhpas you should suggest some counselling- that may drive it home for her. If she knows how you feel and respects you, she should stop this relationship. She met him on your honeymoon for god’s sake, that hurts. Its not a life long firend that you are intruding on. If there are commmunicaiton problems between you tow, she should be discussing them too with you and not jus t striking up a NEW relationship. This is marriage, you both made a committement , and that take s work- not just the easy way out. Don’t listen to those whoe tell you to stay out of her business- 7 out of 10 marriages fial nowadays- I htink because its just too easy to keep entertained elsewhere. Its also odd she struck up the relation on your honelymon, maybe some commitment issues there? If she is getting so attached, and its effecting you, she should demonstrate some sensitivity to that. Perhpas you should suggest some counselling- that may drive it home for her.

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